Month: March 2023 (Page 4 of 4)

I was listening to a podcast with David Goggins and he said something that resonated with me: (I’m paraphrasing) “We are all so quick to change our wardrobe, our hairstyle, our cars, home, our physical looks and even our spouses, but not a lot of people are willing to change the way they think.”

I know for myself, I could certainly gain insight from other’s who have come before me in learning about how to think different. It seems like a scary prospect indeed, but I would ask, “What’s the alternative?” I would have to answer, “Stagnation.” And that is something I have no interest in.

We can learn from the greats, as there are many who approach the world in ways that seem foreign to us, but makes perfect sense to them. Let’s reach out and discover from others who have risked change and broken through.

What have we got to lose?

As I sit here and write this blog today, I question my own expertise as I spout off words of encouragement and ideas of bettering ourselves each and every day. There is a critique that voices his opinion within me on a constant basis. “What makes you an expert?” Below would be my response to that critique.

I’ve never claimed to be an expert on issues. That’s not where this comes from. It comes from a place of having my own experiences and sharing the insights I’ve gained after doing so.

It’s first-hand knowledge of trials and tribulations that may or may not be relatable to others. It’s a way of calling myself out and letting the drain of my head open and spill onto the page.

I don’t consider myself an expert, but a person who has gone through moments and learned and will continue to so (hopefully) for the rest of my life and share the lessons learned in order to help others in their journey.

If not, it’s a nice writing exercise.

Fill in the blank. It could be better eating habits, expanding your vocabulary or increasing your income by 2X.

We all have within us the capacity to do such things. Then why does it not happen?

Well, I would say it’s because we’re not absolutely clear on our intentions nor are we willing to do what it takes. It’s pretty simple. It may not be easy, but it’s a simple concept.

If you are willing to do what it takes, then the rest will come to us. We won’t rule out anything and entertain everything.

Whatever it takes.

How bad do you want it? Once you become clear on that and weigh the desired results with your input and strike a balance that makes sense to you, then it becomes quite clear.

And we will then do whatever it takes.

As I’ve said so many times before, I love to grow. Learn new things and push the boundaries of my body and mind while on this earth on a daily basis. I do my best, sometimes of course, more than others, but one thing I’m always attracted to when it comes to encountering other people – and an aspect of myself I would love to be more consistent with – is Glowing.

I love to be around people that Glow. Glow in spirit. Glow with excitement. Glow with gratitude and Glow with joy. People who Glow with happiness and Glow with curiosity. People who Glow with positive vibes and Glow from patience.

It’s akin to a superhero being dipped into a concoction giving them superpowers: Glow juice! Packed with Love and a fervor for life itself.

Introduce me to that pool where I can bath in the beauty of these revitalizing waters so I may share my beacon of Love with everyone I come into contact.

I just want to Glow.

So, let’s GLOW!

Serving others can certainly be a pleasure if we are able to commit ourselves to the process of “giving” and get into the proper mindset.

It’s a pretty basic principle to follow – nothing new here – but Lord knows there will be a time where the tables will be turned and we will need some help from others in which we would welcome the words, “my pleasure.”

Maybe this indeed questions altruism at it’s core. Can we truly benefit – feel better – after going out of our way to help others? Absolutely. It’s scientifically proven that endorphins are released from our brain to give us those “feel good” feelings inside.

There’s nothing wrong with that. I’ll take that altruistic behavior in a minute.

How about you?

By the way, it’s been my pleasure.