I value consistency in myself and in others. In addition to stability. Those who can be relied upon when they’re asked to show up is important to me.
Probably more than I realize. These are the people I tend to get closer to. The opposite is true of those who fall short of this quality and I tend to withdraw from those who are unable to remain steady for the long haul.
What does that say about me? Not sure.
I won’t blow your mind with my charisma in the first 5 minutes of meeting you, but give me 5 years and I will be there if a solid foundation has been established in the relationship.
Isn’t that what we all want?