Sounds like an oxymoron to me.

But, this is exactly what I intend to do in my life on an on-going basis.

There is nothing more unattractive than someone who is stuck in their ways, views and bias’s without considering a new or alternative idea. There is always another way of doing things that yes, actually may be better than your own approach. Don’t take it from me, take it from some of the greatest minds of our time that have re-thought how to approach even the most basic of principles and flipped them on their heads; Steve Jobs, Nelson Mandela and Elon Musk.

I was blessed to see this close up as a child from a family member and learned early on this was not how I wanted to move through my own life.

The question is: how do we set up a system to question our own beliefs, strategies and methods?

We do our best to come from a place of objectivity and observe and consider how we view ourselves. Still distorted? Ask a trusted friend, close family member or spouse what their take is of how you view the world. If you don’t like what you hear, it’s probably because it’s true.

If we’re unable to objectively assess our own behavior, then you have bigger problems. If we can, then you’re well on your way as the first step to change is awareness.