Why do we tend to give more respect to others than ourselves? Why do we tolerate less negative behaviors directed at our friends than we endure repeatedly over time? How come we compromise what we expect for ourself, yet demand near perfection from our colleagues?
I think it comes down to perspective. It’s how we see ourselves in this grand ole’ world of ours. It can be quite a challenge for us to have objectivity when it comes to judging ourselves, our behavior and expectations.
Maybe we can step outside our own bodies and see ourselves as a “best friend.” What would you say to someone you truly care about and only want what’s best for him/her? Would you be authentic? Kind? Respectful? Encouraging?
Probably. Because you have a deep Love for them and want them to be the best version of themselves they can be while on this earth.
Now, look in the mirror.