Author: Jim Gohrick (Page 129 of 159)

The difference between egoism and altruism is: one is looking out for the self and the other is looking out for others.

It can be quite a challenge to focus on the latter when we have so much going on in our lives today. So much pressure to succeed with all of the distractions and information coming at us at such a high rate of speed. As well as getting caught up in what society is telling you what’s important in life. And it has nothing to do with helping others.

Wayne Dyer said rather than asking “What’s in it for me?” that maybe you can ask, “How may I serve?”

Seems like a pretty simple question. Maybe that’s what we need right now.

A little simplicity.

It sounds a bit corny I know, but being your own best friend pays dividends more than you know.

We all intend to do our best, but we must let go of our past mistakes in order to move forward. There is a quote from Wayne Dyer that says something like: “Hell is only our past ‘sins’ we choose to relive over and over again in our lives.”

If we can choose to move forward in lieu of our shortcomings and love ourselves right now – we can begin to forge a real relationship with who we are by accepting what is and evolving from there.

Spending time with yourself is a part of a healthy and loving relationship with yourself. After all, if you cannot love yourself for who you are, how in the world do you expect anyone else to.

The farther you go – more you risk, the more you reveal and learn about yourself and eventually everything becomes much more clear.

We have to start somewhere. Everyone does. And rather than stressing about WHERE to start – merely begin. The details are in the doing. Not the pondering about. Nor the thinking of. And especially not the hoping that maybe . . .

It’s in the engagement of the act. There can never be a substitute for the doing. Never. We might like to kid ourselves that there is an approach no one has discovered that includes theorizing about it – but there isn’t. And if anyone tells you that, run quickly in the opposite direction.

Instead, grab your tools of the trade and dig in. If you can find a mentor who has success in an area of your interest, by all means, follow that path, but make it your own.

Anyone who has made a name for themselves in the world knows they have stood on the shoulders of those before them. And then they put their own signature on it.

It certainly didn’t come from repackaging or regurgitating old information. It came from inspiration from those before them, coupled with new ideas and a whole lot of effort.

It can be difficult to gain proper perspective when you’re on the ground amongst the trees. We must be able to pull back the zoom lens of our lives and see the big picture; the forest.

Choosing one day a week – possibly Sunday – to Rest, Reflect and Rejuvenate can give you just enough space between the busy week you finished up and the expectations of the next one about to come. To reflect on what you accomplished. What you were not able to get done and how it all went down. We can learn quite a bit by just re-visiting an experience in our lives once the emotional ties have been cut and we can look at the situation objectively. You can become you’re own coach.

I seem to adopt brighter future when I have the space to breathe. We’re much more prepared when we can be proactive rather than reactive.

We could all use a bit more time to for ourselves. Especially when that time has intention behind it.

That’s a good thing. To wonder. Never stop.

It can be much easier to refrain from your curiosity and begin to just accept what is. Where’s the life in that?

when we ask the question I wonder if . . . we open the door to possibility. To discovery. And most importantly to answers we may have never thought were possible.

In asking such a question, we are engaging in a free form creative session. No rules or parameters. No one is going to shoot us down. We don’t need that now. We aren’t going into production.

We’re just asking a simple question: I wonder . . .